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I confess... - justagirl - 12-17-2011 02:03 AM
that I am in a dead end relationship because my husband left me after twenty years and I am horrified of being completely alone.
RE: I confess... - nicole - 12-27-2011 03:31 AM
Aw, justagirl, it can definitely be incredibly scary, but sometimes the scariest things in life are the best ones for us. You're totally capable of making it on your own. Maybe you could look at your current relationship as a stepping stone -- like a transition period -- into being totally independent. You can do amazing things in 2012, and you can make it all about you. I absolutely think you should.
(12-17-2011 02:03 AM)justagirl Wrote: that I am in a dead end relationship because my husband left me after twenty years and I am horrified of being completely alone.
RE: I confess... - slavetofashion - 01-11-2012 02:19 AM
I feel your pain. The fear of being along was almost paralyzing for me. How long will I be alone? What if I never find anyone? How do I live as a me when I'm so used to being a we? I wish I could tell you some magic way to get past if, but the truth is that it's just going to have to suck for a while. By being in this dead end relationship, you are only putting off the pain. It's going to suck and it's going to hurt, but you will gain a deeper understanding of yourself and what you truly want from a relationship and a partner. Good luck girl!