2 years ago next Tuesday I met a guy that was 7 years older then me. We started hanging out and eventually things escalated into an intimate relationship. About 2 weeks into us hanging out he told me he had a girlfriend that he no longer wanted to be with and was trying to end things with her. I told him we couldn't be anything more than friends, but eventually things took a different route. He was basically cheating on her with me for the last year and a half of their relationship. He'd always come to me and say how he's trying to break up with her but she just wouldn't have it. Last June it finally became official, atleast so I thought. She moved out of his house and out of his life. I wasn't going to push a relationship yet because he said since he just got out of a 3 year relationship he wanted to take his time and make sure things were right with me before jumping into another one. For the past few months I'd stay at his house and things were going okay. A few times his ex would show up unexpectedly, they always got into a big argument and I would just leave. Well this last time she showed up, she came through the door and talked to me. She said she thought she was being played a fool because she thought him and her were getting back together. I told her that him and I were working on a relationship. He told her to get out of his house and out of his life, that they were never going to get back together, he said they could try and be friends but not anymore due to the way she was acting. She got the rest of her stuff, they yelled, and she said she hope I was the girl that answered all his prayers and left.

As far as I know he hasn't talked to her. I feel lower then anything knowing I allowed someone to cheat with me. I fell in love and my feelings got the best of me. I don't know if I'm being played is my problem. He's met my mom and I've met some of his family, but every time I try to talk about us making things official and taking that step forward he tells me I'm rushing it. We've known eachother for 2 years, I guess I just don't get it.

What would you do?