hey betty, there's this guy that i've had a crush on since last year feb. we meant and started talking a while ago, anyway erm during a cular period ay friends told me to tell him , but i couldn't bring myself to do it, anyway in dec b4 the schl came to an end i was forced to tell him, my friends brought up the whole end of the year, say it while u can stuff. anyway so i did and he told meparti that in he;s words if only i told him earlier, he said a girl asked him out and he accepted so i said okay, but then he was on saying that it's not like he likes the girl but he's just in it to be in it. and that he wants nothing serious so i told me the right thing being a good friend that he should try to like her and accept the relationship, but in my heart i wanted to shout pick me. so that's it. i know i should move on but i just had to ask for a little advice on anything at all cause i really really like this guy and it hurts. oh and ever since the day we had that conversation i haven't seen him, only once and well he wasn't in a good mood, so i let him go. since then i haven't seen him. i miss him and think abt him every sec of everyday and i knw i can't tell him all these things i feel. *sign [/i][/i][/i][/i]

and sorry if i misspelled any word, I'm late 4 a class just had to get this out

(01-09-2012 02:01 PM)g-rocks Wrote:  hey betty, there's this guy that i've had a crush on since last year feb. we meant and started talking a while ago, anyway erm during a cular period ay friends told me to tell him , but i couldn't bring myself to do it, anyway in dec b4 the schl came to an end i was forced to tell him, my friends brought up the whole end of the year, say it while u can stuff. anyway so i did and he told meparti that in he;s words if only i told him earlier, he said a girl asked him out and he accepted so i said okay, but then he was on saying that it's not like he likes the girl but he's just in it to be in it. and that he wants nothing serious so i told me the right thing being a good friend that he should try to like her and accept the relationship, but in my heart i wanted to shout pick me. so that's it. i know i should move on but i just had to ask for a little advice on anything at all cause i really really like this guy and it hurts. oh and ever since the day we had that conversation i haven't seen him, only once and well he wasn't in a good mood, so i let him go. since then i haven't seen him. i miss him and think abt him every sec of everyday and i knw i can't tell him all these things i feel. *sign [/i][/i][/i][/i]

and sorry if i misspelled any word, I'm late 4 a class just had to get this out

Honey, you've got so much ahead of you and so many people who will come in and out of your life... Don't waste one more second on this guy. Start building your brilliant future instead.

xx
Ellie

trust me i know, you and everyone, including me keep saying the same thing move on, forget about him. i have done all i could, at one point i thought i did but then i saw him and i was back to square 1 which sucks big time. i think about him 24/7, and honestly I'm getting sick of it, but i can't stop. I've been on several dates and I've meant other guys but i guess I'm so caught up with this one guy.

So you're at highschool? Or maybe college? That's tough. When we're younger it's so much harder to get over guys, because we haven't had that much experience with them and our hearts are more sensitive. I spent a good 6 years "getting over" a guy I dated at high school. Now that I'm older and wiser I look back and laugh. That guy was a total moron. I just couldn't see it. Blinded by love. I wish I had never wasted all those years of my life. I wish I'd gotten on with my life, done the things I wanted to do. Met someone new and fabulous. Don't make the same mistake I did. Forget him. Get over him. You are so so so much better than any guy. There are other amazing people out there--you just haven't met them yet.